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Beyond the diagnosis

By Matt Cavallo

March is National MS Education and Awareness Month, and this year’s theme, “The Whole Picture: Leading a Better Life with MS,” reminds us that life with multiple sclerosis is about more than just treatment. It’s about identity, purpose, and personal growth.

When I was first diagnosed with MS, my world felt like it had been turned upside down. The uncertainty of my symptoms, the fear of what the future held, and the overwhelming medical information made it feel like MS had taken over my identity. But with time, I learned that MS is a part of me — it doesn’t define me. That distinction made all the difference.

Reclaiming your identity

An MS diagnosis can make you feel like you’ve lost control over your own life. Suddenly, your schedule revolves around doctor’s appointments, symptom management, and medication decisions. But even in the face of these challenges, you are still you — with your passions, dreams, and the ability to create a meaningful life.

For me, this realization came when I shifted my focus from what MS had taken away to what I could still do. I could still tell stories, still connect with others, and still have a lasting effect. Reframing my perspective helped me take back control of my narrative.

Finding purpose

Living with MS can make you question what’s next — especially if your career or personal goals suddenly seem uncertain. The key is to find purpose in new and adaptive ways.
 
Purpose doesn’t have to be a grand mission; it can be as simple as setting small, personal goals that bring you joy and fulfillment.

The power of adaptation

Adapting to MS isn’t about giving up — it’s about finding new ways to do the things you love. I had to adjust my daily routines, learn to pace myself, and accept that some days would be harder than others. But adaptation is a skill, and once you embrace it, you open yourself to new possibilities.

A friend once told me, "You can’t wait for the storm to pass — you have to learn to dance in the rain." 

Living well with MS is about choosing to dance, even if it looks different than before.

Faith and resilience

For many of us, faith plays a significant role in navigating life with MS. Whether it’s religious faith, faith in yourself, or faith in the support system around you. Holding onto hope is one of the most powerful things you can do.

On the hardest days, I remind myself that my story isn’t over. No matter what MS throws my way, I still have the ability to live with purpose, to find joy, and to keep pushing forward.

Your journey with MS is unique to you. But one thing is universal — you are more than your diagnosis. When you focus on your identity, purpose, and resilience, you can build a fulfilling life beyond MS. Let’s shift the conversation from what MS takes to what we can still create, experience, and accomplish.